2. Don’t worry about spending big lots of money in your first years – by then you’ll find out that you don’t need to spend heaps of money.
3. Decide what your family’s priorities/mottoes are and then put the time in to your top priorities.
Ask yourself: what do we want our children to “look” like by age of 16-18 yo? what qualities do we value?
4. Relax and enjoy family life.